Wednesday, December 03, 2008

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Indonesian Expat is Finally Launched!

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to connect with other Indonesians around the world


Finally, after several months delay, we proudly announce the launch of Indonesian Expat site, which mission is to inspire your success living in a foreign country by providing you this website to share stories, network globally, and find the best resources which hopefully will help your journey overseas.

Mind you we are still in the soft launching phase, there are lots of to add, fix, repair, and change, so please bear with us. However please do not hesitate to contact me at finallywoken@finally-woken.com if you have any ideas, comments, suggestions, or complains.



Hope to see you there!





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Tuesday, December 02, 2008

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Gift Ideas for Christmas

Christmas is coming, and it means it's a gift time! I am sure most of us have been in and out shops to find out the perfect gifts for our loved ones, but usually, we either forget one important person, or the purple scarf we have bought for Mrs Boss suddenly look to cheap or you overheard her say she hates the colour. Or like my dear husband, you couldn't bear to go into overcrowded shop where the guests are elbowing you and the assistants pretend to be too busy to serve you.

With so little time and so much to do, especially in this chilly winter, online shopping comes to the rescue! But having to open the virtual world suddenly we are usually overwhelmed by so many websites offer so many things. Before we know it we'd spend hours on the net trying to find the best deal on perfume or Barbie doll.

That's why the website like Savebuckets and its extensive range of gift ideas is perfect for us. The site is a price comparison site which allows you to compare prices on a wide range of products through hundreds of different shops.

Check out its Christmas Gifts section, listing products from shops like House of Frasers and I Want One of Those. If you are looking for gift particularly for children, you could click here. Your girl deserves the best perfume so find the best one for her in the perfume section. You want to send a hamper for your boss? Savebuckets has food hamper section you could look into. Need a cool gadget like laptop for your men? Try to find it here. Or if you fancy an ipod touch (I know I do!), the website offers the product that starts from £221.70 to £409.00.

Isn't cool? It's like going from Harrods to House of Frasers to Harvey Nichols with your jammies and slippers, by sipping a big cup of coco! No snotty shop assistant, no rude customers, no frozen toes for standing too long outside the shop, and no wasted time to find perfect gifts!

Good luck!

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Monday, December 01, 2008

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Thinking About Career in Fashion Industry?

Since the first time I saw Rachel from Friends, I thought how cool it would be to be able to do my greatest hobby, which is shopping, for a living. Rachel's job as an assistant buyer (and briefly as personal shopper), shows the glam and luxury of working in the fashion industry. I also have a friend who works as a fashion stylist, and I remember how jealous I was every time I saw her with the latest skirt, bags, and shoes, immaculate dress and incredible make-up.

Just like in any other industry, there are many things people could do in fashion industry. If you're in the production, you could be Fashion Designer (the next Coco Chanel or Yves Saint Laurent?), Accessory Designer, Fashion Merchandiser, Fashion Sales Rep, Showroom Sales Rep, Product Manager, Clothing Patternmaker, or Pattern Grader.

In the media and promotion side, you could be Fashion Writer (remember The Devil Wears Prada book and movie?), Fashion Stylist, Fashion PR Specialist, Fashion Editor, Fashion Illustrator, Graphic Designer, or Fashion Photographer (like the legendary Annie Leibovitz. Imagine you spend all day taking picture of beautiful people!).

There are many other careers available in fashion industry. In marketing and merchandising, you could be Fashion Buyer (yes, like Rachel!) Fashion Coordinator, Retail Merchandiser, Visual Merchandiser, Retail Store Manager, or even Boutique Owner. And of course, don't forget Costume Designer, Personal Stylist (ever heard the name Rachel Zoe? She is the legend behind Cameron Diaz and many other celebrities' funky style) and last but not least, Model (Heidi Klum, Kate Moss, Gisele Bundchen to name a few).

I can't turn back the time and become a college student again. But you might!

Whether you are interested in fashion design, fashion merchandising, or the business side of fashion, there are many degrees that provide the building blocks you need to succeed in your career. You could learn about the numerous fashion degree programs available in Fashion Schools. The site research fashion careers, schools and trends to help you get connected to the resources that you need to start or continue an exciting career in the fashion industry.

Isn't it cool? Click Fashion Schools to find more!

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Friday, November 28, 2008

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The End of An Era (?)

It's official.

Bugils Jakarta (I can never know the right spell. Is it Bugil's or Bugils? BuGils or BuGil's?) will hold their very last party in December 13th. We have heard the rumour about Bugils closing down forever, but this time it is for real. It should be official, because the bar throws the countdown parties, starts from Monday, December 8th, and ends on Saturday, December 13th.



It's a goodbye, big goodbye to its loyal customers who have survived together with the legendary bar during raids, floods, ghosts, deaths, smelly socks, drunken customers, crazy barmaids, and God knows what else. A friend told me that she is planning to fly to Jakarta to attend the party. Another will fly from Hong Kong. I am sure the original shareholders, who are as mysterious as the myth of a beer glass put every night to feed the ghost, will turn up too. I am sure Bart will try to push the sale of 'Barack Bites' stroopwafels, the same stroopwafels which have been around for at least a couple of years before reemerging with a new name. The book, Bule Gila: Tales of A Dutch Barman, certainly will be there too. I don't know if the second book will ever come out, since Bart has been busy with his new celebrity status, being interviewed by CNN and such, and embracing the holy mission of conquer the world with his Aaltje Bakery's stroopwafel.

Every year, every body tries to beat the record of staying, standing, and surviving at the party. I heard the record is from two PM until five AM, 15 hours, held by none other than Lens, the man behind Eastern Promise's phenomenal success. That's a lot of beer. Every year, and just for once a year and only in that particular party, the bar will suddenly be flooded by young, gorgeous, broke, tan, fit blokes, outnumbering sleazy, aging, pot-belly men. They look too young to drink (but who cares and is there such rule in Indonesia?), perhaps make a detour from their international schools, and definitely come for free beer. It is refreshing. Every year, everybody suddenly becomes friends with real friends, ex-friends, enemies, frenemies, ex-boyfriends, ex-girlfriends, ex-fiances, ex-wives, ex-husbands, their new partners, their ex-partners; basically the entire romance history suddenly will flash before your very eyes and there's nothing you can do except to nod and smile, keep a poker face and jot down a mental note that A is now seeing B, C just broke up with D, E is pregnant by F, and G is gay.

I wish I could be there to say goodbye to the bar personally. The last time I attended the party was in 2007 and as far as I remember, and judging from the immortalised moment on the right, it was a blast.

But I know Bugil's Jakarta would not be easily defeated. So wait for another year or two, and Bugil's Jakarta part two, will re-emerge somewhere. Just like Bart's stroopwafel!


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Thursday, November 27, 2008

Something Scottish For Today

You might not realise that Donald Trump is half Scottish. But it is the only reason why he insists on building the golf resort in Scotland, surrounding his mansion (which is called 'The Donald' by his ex wife Ivanka) in Balmedie, north of Aberdeen. Trump was reportedly considered more than 200 sites in Europe before opted Scotland. The plan was rejected by the local council last year, but the central government decided to take over the matter and...

After over two years of legal battling with local and national officials in Scotland, Trump International Golf Link has finally received the green light. The proposed £1 billion resort will be the biggest in Europe, as along with the two links golf courses, it will feature a clubhouse, a golf academy, a five-star 450-bedroom hotel and spa on site, 960 holiday homes, and 500 private houses.

The new Star Trek film is infuriating its Scottish fans, apparently, because chief engineer Montgomery “Scotty”, played by actor Simon Pegg, has unconvincing Scottish accent. But this is not the first time an attempt by a non-Scot to do Scottish accents provoke controversy. The Sunday Times (Nov 23/08) made a list of actors who tried and failed successfully, like Mel Gibson, who was said to "had eaten something that didn't agree wit him judging by this pained, vowel crushing performance" in the famous Braveheart (1995) movie, and Christopher Lambert, who in Highlander (1986) sounded more "Gallic than Gaelic".

Although I wasn't equipped with Scottish accent, I have survived last Saturday's snowy St. Andrew's ball, despite wearing strappy stilettos. My bare feet and toes were frozen, sunk in the snow when I was walking from the front door to the taxi and from the taxi to the reception hall. I didn't wear tights or thermal underwear underneath my gown - couldn't take risk of flashing uninteresting sight when dancing and accidentally lifting the skirt up - and the photographer who stopped us by the door insisted on taking our picture under the snowflakes without my coat on. Stuart was on kilt so he was securely protected from head to toe; I consider myself lucky I don't catch pneumonia. I didn't know that the cloak room was actually a room (I thought it was a tiny closet like in the movies) and other ladies smartly wore wellies and changed into their jeweled shoes when they were in the ballroom, put the wellies in in the cloak room, and changed their stilettos back into their sensible wellies when they were about to go home. The Indonesian St. Andrew's Ball will be held in Jakarta this coming weekend. It is so much easier as you don't need to coordinate your gown with coat scarf and a pair of gloves and Ugg boots and dancing shoes! If you are interested you should click here.

The band at the ball is Red Hot Chili Piper and everybody loved them. The band members either has red hair, red socks, or red glasses. I have never seen bagpipers who play AC/DC and Queen before and these guys make bagpipes and bagpipers look so cool.


I am off to Edinburgh this weekend and going to try the ghost tour where it will "take a light-hearted look at Edinburgh's dark side, including tales of witchcraft, plague and torture. You will explore the eerie alleyways and creepy courtyards of the Old Town with your ghostly guide, who will blend history with humour and facts with fables, while 'jumper-ooters' provide guaranteed ghastly appearances". I just hope this weekend wouldn't be freezing, snowy, and windy, otherwise I'd be seeing real ghosts. I wonder why Indonesia doesn't organise such tour. We have so many ghosts like 'si Manis jembatan Ancol' and pretty much every single item surround us has a history and its ghost. Might as well make money out of it!


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Saturday, November 22, 2008

And The Music Takes It All

It's been a painful week, basically: mentally, physically, spiritually. Practically avoided 3 dimensional human being and ignored phone calls and texts and only did a one way communication through faceboook, which isn't really communication but over-sharing tool. Funny that we could decide not to tell anything while at the same time reveal everything. Decided to go all the way with plurk, twitter, and ping. Maybe I will follow Tree's step to create a porn-self. It was fun for a while.


Life goes on and it was decided on Wednesday although it will take forever to heal the wound. Funny that something that is not even real can mean so much more than anything in the world. The world stopped spinning and the heart stopped beating and for a while the room seemed much smaller than before. Didn't even know how to start but the grief forced to be noticed so nothing else to do but curled up and embraced it.

For no reason jumped into a mission of finding a song which tune has been bugging for days. Remember the video clip but never paid attention to it since it was lame but tonight it was a holy search. Video clip memory didn't help because still needs band and title, or at least some part of lyrics. Google still cannot find things by humming, have made a note to self to send a suggestion so they could develop some tool to hear, not just to read.

So tried to type 'one hit wonder' and after hours found that the bug was East 17's Stay Another Day. Very ironic because whatever that was it decided to not stay for another minute and said goodbye early this week. Bah.



After a bottle of wine and hundreds of calories, The Killers asked if we are human or dancers and for a second I thought the were asking about me. I wondered if Chris Martin ever takes a shower because he always seems to overdue in hygiene department although it doesn't stop Gwyneth Paltrow and other millions of fans to adore him. I'm lost in Lost! (don't forget the exclamation point) together with Jay-Z. Suddenly remember the very first crush was George Michael when the picture of him in white underpants in the shower graced "Hai" magazine about 20 years a go. Him, and Bon Jovi, of course. All loooked so well groomed. Not like Chris Martin. Does being enviromentally friendly mean to grow 5-o'clock shadow to be 5-weeks old shadow?

Sick of Katy Perry's I Kissed The Girl tune, because, honestly who hasn't? But only her who boasts to the entire world about it and now it is a big deal again. Funny that Beyonce thought to undergo a sex change operation because she wondered if she was a a boy. Maybe she wanted to kiss Katy Perry. The Script's Breakeven and Take That's Greatest Day were in every channel and I couldn't tell the difference. The first thought by wearing leather jacket and real mic means they're more tough. I enjoy the songs though. Rihanna thought I should live my life and Kanye West instructed to keep the love locked down, but he's always in holier-than-thou mode and no one dares to tell him that his glasses are so ugly. I don't understand why Kanye is such a big hit even himself thought he wasn't worthy to receive the MTV award and said Lil Wayne was better. But that before he punched some paparazzi.

St. Andrew's Ball will be a good thing because it pushes nice dress to be out of closet and mindset to be at anything but that. Maybe there will be panic at the disco. It's almost 4 AM and I should get some rest and try to look good tomorrow tonight.

Update November 22:

Forgot to mention the most anticipated Guns N' Roses' new album: Chinese Democracy, which is already banned in China. One newspaper gave 2.5 (out of 5, I guess) for the album, but I think after 17 years there is too much expectation on Axl. The fact that it is just him without Duff, Izzy and Slash slips from everybody's mind. It's Axl and the band, not Guns N' Roses. It's not the same. But it would be a great choice for Christmas gift though. That, and a Prada bag.


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Thursday, November 20, 2008

Another Reason To Drink And Be Merry

Cazbar is celebrating its anniversary, and I am proud to announce to the world, that the bar, which name was formed during a weekend away at one of the shareholders' house through some quiz (the one who came up with the name that would be used for the bar will get free beer and {updated Nov 21} the stool with his/her name), is already 3 years old, and they will share the joy and happiness by throwing a fab party with free beer and entertainment for the whole night.




I like Caz not because I have to, but because the place is friendly for female patron who comes alone. The staffs are friendly and call you by your name, and the place provides free wi-fi too. I feel secure there and could hang around for hours with my macbook and glasses of wine or cappuccino without being interrupted or disturbed by sleazy old men like in most bars. I spent many times having work lunch at Caz since my L'Oreal office was only stones away, mostly with Tamara or Rocky. I occasionally took my staffs for afternoon coffee (disguised as 'meetings'), and spent Saturday mornings with late breakfast and The Guardian papers. Friday lunches were sometimes with GG and he would be having fun guessing what I would have for the day. Most of the times he was right as I often went for lamb chop (still do), although apparently my choice of meal was criticised by an Indonesian blogger -- who thought I trespass the international luncheon code of ethics because lamb chop should only be served as dinner -- which is funny since the said blogger a) definitely isn't a chef, has a zero knowledge of how to build up a menu for international guests or how to run a restaurant or pub; b) has never set foot at Cazbar, let alone tasted its food, yet found a liberty to criticise its menu. Rocky the chef would be delighted; c) as an Indonesian, should be familiar with full meal breakfast concept like fried rice, satay, or soto and even can have them at 2AM off of street stalls and yet thought that having red meat at lunch time is wrong and d) urged me to stick with vegetable instead, which is the most bizarre advice I have ever got in my life, especially since the said blogger isn't my dietitian, personal trainer, doctor, spouse, even friend.

Cazbar was also a choice of venue to meet other bloggers offline. I met Therry there for the first time, and then met Therry, Elyani and Ecky there too. If I didn't have to have Sunday brunch at 4 Seasons, I would have met Toni and Elyani at Cazbar too! One of Caz's best thing (apart from lamb chop, obviously) is their Caswell coffee. It tastes much better than coffee from other franchise stalls, and although a cup of cappuccino can contain hundreds of calories, I keep ordering it after meal (now that is something that actually the said blogger should criticise, as Italians only have cappuccino in the morning and never have it after meal and have espresso instead).

This Saturday, I would be dancing at St. Andrew's Ball, 12 thousand km away, but in my heart I am dancing for Cazbar.

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Monday, November 17, 2008

Thinking About Buying Burberry?

I have been thinking hard to write something that is mentally, morally, or spiritually challenged, but world peace articles wouldn't attract visitors as much as boobs threads (and those who know me know that I'm an attention and traffic seeker), and as an architect-slash-project manager I don't think I am capable to adopt a patronizing attitude and lecture others about poverty or politics. Plus I'm too shallow and I think talking about fashion would be much more fun!


I know that most girls in Indonesia are brand-crazy. And just like Louis Vuitton and Gucci, some girls are very into Burberry, although not as crazy as Japanese an Korean (A recent survey conducted by MyVoice into high-class brand found that Burberry was also the most owned high-class brand in Japan). The famous English brand, which was founded in 1856, has a distinctive plaid pattern that has become one of its most widely copied trademarks. Queen Elizabeth and Prince Charles have granted the company Royal Warrants (which means the royal family has been loyally shopping there).

Sadly though, and this is something that customers outside UK do not know, during the 1970s, the brand became popular with the British football casual cult, leading to it to being associated with chavs, hooligans and members of football firms by the 1990s. The brand became a national joke, particularly when actress Danniella Westbrook was photographed with her young daughter wearing matching Burberry (picture on the left courtesy of The Sun). In 2005, the BBC reported that "pubs and clubs across the country began to ban customers who dressed in the label".



Burberry has certainly been damaged by its walk on the "chav" side. So they have tried to repair the damage by removing checked baseball caps from sale and reduced the visibility of their distinctive pattern. However, the British market represents only a small part of total sales. And when Angela Ahrendts took over the company as the CEO, the brand which almost become a laughing stock in their own backyard has made a dramatic turnaround, claiming the success of the sale of £450 wellies, an £11,000 alligator skin handbag and a £3,000 chevron coat worn by Sarah Jessica Parker in Sex and the City - the Movie. At a time when less-glamorous high street rivals are laying off staff, Burberry said it had sold “several hundreds” of its £11,000 Warrior handbag since January. Sales of men's coats in Britain have been “sensational”, while shoe sales have more than doubled, led by a wellington boot showcased on the catwalk at fashion shows last autumn. Pre-tax profits in the past year are up by 14 per cent to £206 million on sales of almost £1 billion. (burberry car picture is borrowed from here).

However, generally people in UK avoid to buy Burberry's classic pattern and go for something more subtle. Only those outside UK are after its distinctive pattern which can be found everywhere from sunglasses to key ring. So next time if you're thinking about buying something from Burberry, don't go for something like this...

Or this.... (picture courtesy of BBC).

Or this (unless you're baby Suri Cruise)....

And definitely don't go for something like like this! (I mean, wearing tights or leggings is already bad enough but this is sooo wrong in so many levels! Picture borrowed from here).


Instead, opt for something like this:

The most famous Burberry product is trench coat. It was invented by Thomas Burberry who submitted a design for an army officer's raincoat in 1901. I always thought Burberry has only one model of their classic trench coat, but apparently there are many! (Click here to find out more). You wouldn't know it's from Burberry unless you stand close enough to read the label engraved on each button.

But since Indonesia is a tropical country, wearing trench coat will be considered strange, although I am sure there people who are brave enough to embrace the trend without thinking about the appropriate climate. So maybe something like this?


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Saturday, November 15, 2008

Let's Talk About Breasts... Again

Following Tree and my late night chat we came up with boobs post which inspired Tree to tag others (see Tree's extensive list of 'infected bloggers' here) as part of his world domination plan. Those who were tagged cannot help but post something about boobs. Those who weren't tagged silently took part anyway - too shy to announce their participation but maybe secretly hoping to be noticed by us, I don't know - and before we knew it the boob post became a hit in Indonesian blogosphere.

I have done mine which basically reveals that women are fascinated by our - and other women's - breasts. But if only guys knew how far women would go to maximize their assets, they won't just believe what they 'see' until they see and feel them up close and personal!

Women are equipped with many tools which help us to support our breasts. Small cup? Get a padded bra. Sagging boobs? Get a lifter. No cleavage? Get a push-up. Revealing dress? Get invisible bra.

If only men knew...

Bra



clipped from www.ebrasetc.com




In 1863, Luman L Chapman patented a corset substitute with breast puffs and shoulder-brace straps that tied in back. The first bra was born. Then in 1893, Marie Tucek patented the "Breast Supporter" - the first garment similar to the modern-day bra that used shoulder straps with a hook-and-eye closure to support the breasts in pockets of fabric.

In 1904, the Charles R. DeBevoise Company first labeled a woman's bra-like garment a 'brassiere'. It was a actually a lightly boned camisole that helped stabilize the breasts








Corset substitute with breast puffs
1863


1904 Bra Ad
1904 Brassiere





By 1907, the term "brassiere" began to show up in high profile women's magazines and eventually, around 1912, it appeared in the Oxford English Dictionary.










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Now bra comes in different shape, color, style, and most importantly, function. There are push-up, demi-cup, full-cup, racerback, low back, strapless, wireless, backless, seamless, and many more (guys, now you understand why women need big closet!). There are bras designed for supersmall to superbig cup (brand like Bravissimo, for example, specialised in cup D to K women). There are bras specially fo teenagers (those in Indonesia called miniset), for maternity and nursing, for sport, and of course, for nothing but enticing men.

Almost 8 out of 10 women, however, wear the wrong size bra. I've got a friend who thought she was a C cup whilst I know for sure that she is much bigger than that, she could easily be DD or even E! Click here to find out more about how to find the correct and perfect bra.

Silicone Bra

Not really ordinary bra like we normally know because it is made of silicone. This revolutionary, self-adhesive, silicone bra that looks, feels and bounces like real breasts is backless and strapless, making it invisible under clothing. Many but not all brands have this. Those who look for breast support that will remain invisible when worn with a special dress that has a low back, or wide off set shoulders, or is cut to reveal far more underarm and shoulder than the everyday bra can accommodate without revealing unsightly straps, usually go for this type.

Personally I don't recommend this silicone bra unless you go to an air-conditioned event where you just sit nicely and clap, like Oscar or gala dinner. If you go to somewhere warm and dance away, it will peel off! I had my almost-embarrassed incident when I was out in Jakarta. It was hot at the dance floor and I was sweaty, dancing with a very gorgeous guy when suddenly I felt my 'bra' was peeling off of my breasts. I quickly ducked away, hands on chest, flew to toilet, leaving the guy stunned and puzzled why I suddenly left him. I managed to reach the toilet safely to take them off, but since I only carried one of those tiny clutches which held nothing but keys and mobile phone, I had to tuck my precious silicone cups in.... the back pocket of my jeans - and voila, I had a J-Lo bump! I was lucky though, I can't imagine what I would have said if the thing slid away from my top and fell on the floor! (Picture borrowed from Frederick's of Hollywood).

Nipple Cover

Much safer than silicone bra, but doesn't give any support to breasts - so it is only recommended to those who are brave enough to go commando and have a good shape pair of breasts! It is the answer of many my halter neck-plunging neckline dress. The only downside is when you get home and face your man who will see those tapes and will shriek in horror: "What the hell is that??"

Those who think the picture above is boring probably could try something else like different model and color, like this picture on the left (borrowed from here).

Enhancer



There are many types of enhancer. There is gel inserts which will boosting up cup size (say from AA to DD) like picture on the right (stolen from here). These gel inserts are commonly known as 'chicken fillet' because they look, shape, and feel like... chicken fillet. Their jobs are similar to padded bras.

And there is what they call "adhesive cleavage push-up" which job is to create cleavage under the barest strapless and low plunge styles, like picture on the left (again, borrowed from Frederick's of Hollywood).

Last but not least, I just found out what I myself call 'boobs lifter' which will help those sad sagging boobs back to their perky form. You have to heck on this video to find out more about how it works, it's amazing! Personally I won't need it just now, but who knows, in 20 years....


Just like what I said earlier, you cannot believe what you see until you see and feel them up close and personal. With all above tools to help women to achieve their perfect breasts form, there's nothing you can do except embracing your luck, like lucky dip. Even celebrities cheat and the image that you see and visualize in your head is not always real! Look at this stunning Tyra Banks picture and see what her real breasts look like...



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Thursday, November 13, 2008

Facebook Phone

For those Facebook fans, you might want this for your Christmas!


clipped from www.guardian.co.uk

INQ1 - 3's 'Facebook phone'

INQ1 - 3's 'Facebook phone'


Mobile phone company 3 is hoping to capitalise on the success of Facebook with the release of a new handset in time for Christmas that integrates the social networking site with all the traditional functions of a mobile phone, such as contacts book and message inbox.

The INQ1 - pronounced "ink one" - is likely to be dubbed "the Facebook phone" as it puts users in touch with their social networking circle at the touch of a button. The phone, unveiled today and available in the UK, Australia and Hong Kong from next month, is aimed squarely at users who find "smartphones" such as the iPhone, Blackberry Storm and G1 too expensive, but still want to use social networking, e-mail and instant messaging as well as surf the mobile web.








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